Advice from foster and adoptive youth

Advice for foster parents
Maria & Annika - UCLA Bruin Guardian Scholars, former foster youth

Annika and Maria explain the importance of patience as a foster parent or caregiver.

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It's a good habit can be a helpful activity to help youth feel comfortable with your household routines and expectations.

You need to take it slowly
Annika, UCLA Guardian Scholar

Be patient as youth adjust to your home and family routines.

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Try this deep breathing technique when you or another family member feels frustrated.

One night I was crying and my foster mom just held me
Tiffany, Foster Youth, First Star UCLA Bruin Guardian Academy Student

Creating a positive caregiver/youth relationship is key to helping teens deal with tough emotions and challenging times.

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Try using active listening to help youth feel heard and understood.

I use to hate everyone building trust took time
Sarah, Foster Youth, First Star UCLA Bruin Guardian Academy Student

Building a relationship does not happen overnight. Remember to create an positive environment through open communication.

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Holding regular family meetings can help build family closeness.

Advice to foster parents from a current foster youth
Edwardo First Star UCLA Bruin Guardian Academy Student / foster youth

Many foster youth have experienced big challenges, it is important for caregivers to be supportive and good role models.

FOCUS Tools:
Use active listening to help youth feel heard and supported.

Last modified: Monday, 29 November 2021, 11:17 AM